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Challenge #4

In your own space, set some goals for the coming year. They can be fannish or not, public or private. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.


This year I pledged to write 150k words at [Bad username or unknown identity: getyourwordsout. ] I want to write more fanfiction and finish more stories this year. And a blog post a month on Queer Little Family

I want to get some poetry published, or some things published. 

I'm not sure what else I want to do this year, my wife is having a baby in June, so I don't want to plan too much because once the baby comes, all best are off until we figure out a routine with a new baby and a toddler. 

renfys: (Bi pixel heart)


Challenge #3

Pimp Your Favorite Communities, Fests or Challenges! Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.
Friendfort
LGBTQIA+ Writers


renfys: (SG1 - Sam - Dress Blues)



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Challenge #2

In your own space, talk about your fannish history. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

Here is a list of everything I've written fanfiction for:
  • Stargate SG-1, 
  • Stargate Atlantis,
  • Sanctuary,
  • MCU
  • Rizzoli & Isles,
  • The Closer,
  • Castle,
  • The Mentalist,
  • House,
  • Bones,
  • Star Trek Voyager
  • Dragon Age
  • Doctor Who
  • She-Ra 

I read fanfiction from whatever I'm binging at the moment. I still get urges to write Stargate fic and probably will when we do a rewatch. 

I never quite could get my head around shipperwars (remember those heady days, are they still a thing?), mostly cause I will read and write anything. I prefer femslash, but pretty much anything with female characters is my bag. I have written a few m/m fics, including that time I wrote Jack/Pete (Stargate SG-1) to piss off some shippers and to prove I could. I don't read m/m. I'm not overly interested in men (except, Robert Downy Jr, Jeremy Renner and Cullen from the Dragon Age series) .

I like rare pairings, odd pairings, cause I like the challenge of making it work and believable. 

Once I wrote some Kathy Reichs book!fic for my friend Mel. I met her through livejournal through a shared loved of Stargate. We wrote a series of AU fics together in the Stargate universe and I used to text her fic. She's been my best friend for years and is now my son's godmother. She just left after a visit actually. 

I have vague memories of writing Star Wars fic when I was 15 but I think it was self insert fic as a depressed teenager. 
renfys: (non binary speech bubble)
 

Challenge #1

In your own space, introduce yourself! Leave a comment in 
this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post or reblog into the snowflake challenge community if you feel comfortable doing so.

 

I'm Ren, a writer, poet and parent, not always in that order. 

I write a queer parenting blog called Queer Little Family. I write fanfiction for several different fandoms. Last lost I wrote for Dragon Age but I've written Stargate, Voyager, She-Ra, Castle, Bones, Rizzoli & Isles, MCU and more). I'm a multi-shipper and mostly read and femslash. I will write anything though. I write poetry and queer fiction - mostly fantasy and sci-fi. I write mostly femslash and non-binary or trans characters. 

I'm non-binary genderfluid. Mostly trans-masc at the moment. I'm also bisexual.

I'm from Wales, married with a three-year-old and my wife is 15 weeks pregnant with our second. 

I have five cats. Five chickens. Some fish.

I have BPD, depression, SAD, social phobia and anxiety. 

I don't really know what I'm doing with my writing or my life sometimes but I'm always trying to finish a novel and support my family. 

renfys: (Iron Man - Pepper  - bullet holes)
 

I'm not doing day 12 as I'm still trying to decide what my next big patreon project will be.

But Day 13 is something I've already decided upon. I've mentioned it a million times before but I've pledged to write 200,000 words this year at Get Your Words Out (pledges for 2019 end on the 15th by the way). 

Broken down my goals for each month are like this:

I also want to write and finish a novel this year too. 

Other goals include - make new friends and solidify the newer friendships with Kate and Emma I made in 2018. Learn to drive. Have another kid. Get a permanent contact at WWDAS. Grow my patreon

renfys: (Isabela)
 

Day 11

In your own space, talk about your creative process(es) — anything from the initial inspiration to how you feel after something’s done. Do you struggle with motivation or is it a smooth process? Do you have any tricks up your sleeve to pull out when a fanwork isn’t cooperating? What is your level of planning to pantsing/winging it? Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I am so sleepy today but I will try and explain my writing process for various things. Preferably without sounding pretentious. 

Poems - are just streams of words. During NaPoWriMo or OctPoWriMo do I tend to write to prompts more, but I do write to prompts for poems from time to time. More often than not, a few lines will appear in my head and I'll go from there. 

Fanfiction - a variation of prompts, thoughts, and inspiration from the actual source material. I am happy to take anything from single word to full on ideas and write fic. Sometimes the entire prompt is just cause I want to write a particular pairing. Sometimes it's headcannon (mine or someone else's). Sometimes I just wanna write the smut. I'll usually write one-shots, leave it a day, read it over for errors and run it through the spell checker and Grammarly before posting it to my patreon, then a week later to A03 etc. For the Dragon Age fandom I usually hit up the Black Emporium Exchange discord if I have research or questions and the lore. If I need to use in-game dialogue I'll get it off a youtube video and then edit it depending on my needs.

Original Fiction - I get ideas, I always get ideas, and sometimes I actually write them. Last year I started trying to write original fiction as if it were fanfiction - as if the world and lore and even the characters were already known by the reader in a bid to try and get me writing stuff again which actually worked. I am generally a panster. I don't plan. But in that I have several unfinished novel, including the one I won NaNoWriMo with that's been sitting at ~51,000 words since then. And I think I was still living in Leicester when I did it. 

So this time around, for the novel I want to write this year, I'm planning. I haven't actually written a word ot it because I am at least trying to plan the plot out - including the end. I don't know if it will make a difference, and perhaps all I need to finish the damn thing is to actually just bloody write and write until it's done but we'll see. For shorter stuff I'll just keep winging it I think. 

As for the actual writing - I write in my armchair on my laptop. I do write some stuff by hand, but I find typing it up takes as much time so mostly only poems are written by hand unless I've gone away (I tend not to take my laptop with me on breaks and stuff). I don't write at a desk. I don't have one anymore and I don't really have room for one. I could write at my wife's diy desk but I don't know, I've gotten into writing in my chair now.  

I'm quite prolific at the moment, but when the depression hits I know the word count will take a hit too. I have always said I don't suffer from writer's block, but writer's apathy. I know what I want to write, I have the words, I just don't always have the energy or the mental ability to write.

Feel free to ask me questions if I haven't covered anything.

renfys: (Default)
 


Day 9

Commit an Act of Kindness. In your own space, share what you’ve done, talk about what you’ve done, or simply leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I am hoping to do day 9 at the weekend. Then I will have time to see if there is something I can do for people that they wanted on day 6.

 

Day 10

Create a fanwork. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I have written a She-Ra drabble but it's Patreon only until Monday. I am also working on  Josephine/F!Hawke fic. Here is a snippet.

“Now, one thing you must tell me is how you really managed to get away from the Blight,” she says. “Seeing as Varric obviously made up the story about the Witch of the Wilds and the dragon.

 

Hawke chuckles.

 

“That bit is actually true,” she says. 

 

Josephine gasps and over their tea, Hawke recounts her family’s escape from the Ferelden and the Blight for what must be the hundredth time. 

 

Jospehine’s genuine interest and attention makes it feel like the first time though.

renfys: (SGA - Sam Season Four)
 

Day 8
In your own space, post self-recs for at least three fanworks that you created. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

promise, this won't be super long.

1. I've made fanmixes. Just a few but I have a ton more that are works in progress. There is a Tony Stark mix, a Pepper/Black widow mix and a Hawke/Isabela mix. I also made a Stargate fanfic fanmix, with songs that go with certain fics I wrote. 

2. I once wrote a Stargate SG-1 fic about Same Carter's cat - Some Of The Adventures Of Schrödinger The Cat - Rated G. 

3. I also wrote a fic about the ram lord Woolsey from Dragon Age Inquisition - Proper Lawn Maintenance - Rated G

4. I wrote Sanctuary/Mary Poppins crossover fic Helen Magnus/Mary Poppins -  Solace - Rated E

5. I had a couple of fanfiction projects. One was Just That Hot - pairing Sam Carter up with everyone in SG-1 and SGA.  The other is Pairing Pepper Up, which is in the same vein but much a shorter list of fics.  One day I may finish these projects....

I think I want to do recs from every fandom I've written for. Not right now. In the future. Like my favourite 1 (or so).  here is my list of fandoms I've written though:

  1. Stargate SG-1 (131)
  2. Dragon Age (Video Games) (52)
  3. Stargate Atlantis (50)
  4. Dragon Age: Inquisition (44)
  5. House M.D. (37)
  6. Marvel Cinematic Universe (35)
  7. Iron Man (Movies) (24)
  8. Sanctuary (TV) (22)
  9. Dragon Age - All Media Types (21)
  10. The Avengers (Marvel Movies) (15)
  11. Doctor Who (12)
  12. The Closer (9)
  13. Dragon Age II (8)
  14. Dragon Age: Origins (7)
  15. Rizzoli & Isles (6)
  16. Castle (5)
  17. Bones (TV) (4)
  18. Star Trek: Voyager (3)
  19. Doctor Who (2005) (3)
  20. The Mentalist (3)
  21. Thor (Movies) (2)
  22. Dexter (TV) (1)

There's some overlap of course, esp with MCU and Iron Man, etc and the Dragon Age fics. 

renfys: (she-ra/Katra)
 


Day 7

Stretch yourself a little and try something new. Go play in a new fandom or with a new pairing. Try working in a new medium. Or check out some fanworks that are new to you. (The recs from Day 2 might be a good place to start.) Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I am writing She-Ra fanfic. Just a little drabble. I also plan to write some Aveline/Isabela fic at some point and it occurs to me I have never written Aveline before as more than a few lines here and there.

Anyway here is the first bit of the She-Ra >

The first nightAdora wakes up with Catra on the end her bed, she throws her out. What’s worse is she laughs at her before she throws her out, and then laughs at her again the next morning. 

They were kids, she was a kid, but that’s no excuse. Glimmer says she’s too hard on herself but she knows, she knows she’s not hard enough.

renfys: (morrigan - witch)

Day 6

In your own space, create a list of at least three fannish things you'd love to receive, something you've wanted but were afraid to ask for - a fannish wish-list of sorts. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your wish-list if you feel comfortable doing so. Maybe someone will grant a wish. Check out other people's posts. Maybe you will grant a wish. If any wishes are granted, we'd love it if you link them to this post. 

So, I always want to write fic for people. I want people to ask me to write them fanfiction or even original fiction. So if you want femslash, hit me up cause I want to write it. I like writing fanfiction from people's art too, if people want to collaborate. That is definitely something I want.

I always want fanart made of my fics. I really want to commision some art in the future of my OCs (and I want a shiny queer banner for my patreon and website).

I don't really have a third except I also want a copy of the World Of Thedas Vol. 1 but for some reason it's like 100 quid now??? 

renfys: (Bi pixel heart)
 

Day 5

In your own space, promote three communities, challenges, blogs, pages, Twitters, Tumblrs or platforms and explain why you love them. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I know it says three but, well I can't help myself.

Discords

So first up is the LGBTQIA+ Writers Discord - I'm an admin there and it's a great place to get help with WIPs and help with sensitive topics and connect with other LGBTQIA+ writers. I run the groups and communities of the same on FacebookDW and Pfio

Pillowtalk is an unaffiliated pillowfort discord server I'm a member of and really like.

Facebook Groups

LGBT+ Support Network is a good facebook group and an offshoot of LGBT+ Geeks Unite, another good group. The admin are really good too.

Writer's With Mental Illness is a small group but a good one and my favourite poetry group is Poets On The Page.

Challenges

Black Emporium Exchange is a rarepair exchange for Dragon Age.

Get Your Words Out is a writing pledge. 

Pillowfort

Community Ads is a good one for finding communities. 

Blanket BoxBox is a great comm. 

I also like Fandom Olds and Friend Fort.

Dreamwidth

Add A Writer - find other writers on DW

Journal Memes and Question Of The Day

Twitter

WriteLGBT+ - relatively new but good.

 

That's enough I think. 

renfys: (Default)
 


Day 4

Comment to someone you haven't ever interacted with before or introduce yourself to someone you've interacted with and friend/follow them. Afterwards, leave a comment in this post with the equivalent of "I did it!"

Today, I will be replying to comments I've received and commenting on other people's snowflake challenges. 

I also welcome anyone to pm and say hi cause I'm ridiculously insular and socially phobic (a diagnosed fact). And if you want to follow if you like Dragon Age, femslash, writing and listening to a Welsh non-binary bisexual parent talk about their mental health issues and word counts and toddler then follow me. 

renfys: (Iron Man 2 - Tony)
 

Day 3

In your own space, share a favourite piece of original canon (a TV episode, a song, a favourite interview, a book, a scene from a movie, etc) and explain why you love it so much. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I've always really liked Iron Man, ever since I was a kid and watched the Marvel cartoons on channel 4 on a Sunday morning. When I heard they were making a film I was really excited. 

And I was not disappointed by Robert Downy Jr at all. 

This scene is so perfectly Tony Stark that I can't even describe it. 

I have seen Iron Man so many times I know it off by heart. Even the bits that aren't in English. It's become a comfort film, and even though other characters in the MCU have become favourites (Black Widow and Pepper Potts) I still love it.

renfys: (Isabela)



 

Day 2

Rec at least three fanworks that you didn’t create. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

1. So this is a peice of fanart drawn for me for last years Black Emporium Exchange by sweettasteofbitter /sandal . it's WarriorF!Trevelyan/Josephine which I is my totes OTP in Dragon Age. All of their work is awesome. They post more to twitter and a patreon.

2.  I have seafoam in my veins, for I understand the language of the waves by cydonic - Isabela/Josephine which is another of my favourite pairings in DA. This is a great fic, about 17k words and some smut. I think it's the perfect pushing and flirting of Isabela with the holding back of Josephine that is so spot on.

3. Wild, Wild Sings The Bird by lecriteuse is Josephine/Cassandra and I've read it like a dozen times. It's the forced marriage trope and done really, really well. I must read it over once every few months, it's sweet and fluffy and heartbreaking in places. 

I could go on, but those are three of my favourite things.

renfys: (Isabela)



 

Day 1

In your own space, talk about your Happy Place—the things that give you joy, calms you or keeps you sane. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.

I have a couple of happy places. Lying in bed with my son, on good nights, when he sleeps and is still and I can cuddle him. Or in the sunshine in the garden. 

Or lying in bed at the end of the day, reading fanfiction on my phone. Sometimes just re-reading my own, and groaning whenever I find a flipping typo. 

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